Why we don’t find love these days……..

Why we don’t find love these days……..

Why we don’t find love these days……..

God loves each of us as if there were only one of us.

Why is that we are always look out for true love?

Can’t we just look for only, simple Love?

If look generally we can find love all around but what we look for is true love like:-

Radha & Krishna

Heer & Ranjha

Laila & Majnu

Sassi & Punnu and many more……..

But here one thing has to be understood that these were the stories only. Why stories only? Has anyone seen them? Is there any one story only out these all stories that can be proved to be true? If you do a survey you will come around all the different kind of version of these love stories.

Firstly, we should understand that stories are told just to make us understand the meaning of MORAL which is only of few words or can say just to make us understand the meaning of the phrase for which the stories are told.

So, as we human are short memory types we constantly have to keep our self reminding about that what is wrong and what is right, what is truth and what is mirage. So, our forefathers invented the system of the story telling and every country, state, town, village, country sides, region, religion, tradition and even a simple house hold peoples have there own version of the stories of all kind so that we can briefly understand the meaning of the moral of the story.

So, friends the moral of my story about LOVE is that stop looking for Love and Be ready to feel it when it comes around, Be ready not to miss the moment in which you will feel yes this what I was looking for and go ahead and take your chance. Wake up your intuition power and your sixth sense by MEDITATION and feel love all the time and in what is around you.

The true meaning of Love in the real world is GIVE AND TAKE.

It’s just simple give love and get love.

Lord has made all the things and humans of different kind, of different color and with different beauty. Each and every thing and person has its own beauty, we just have to find that in him. As it is well said beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So, smile always and find for that beauty in the person in front of you which he has. The person who is ignorant, he/she is ignorant but that does not mean he/she is bad. No one is bad in this world all things and humans are made by Lord then how can they be bad, yes they can be called ignorant but not bad. Look for the inner beauty of the person because that is only truth outer beauty is just a MIRAGE; it will melt as the time passes by.

Youthful beauty fades with time, but, with cultivation, inner beauty grows richer.

And also it is well said:-

प्यार को प्यार ही रहने दो कोई नाम ना दो........

Let the love be love only don’t give it a name……

Regards.

I Trust you........

What is the trust?

How one can trust someone?

What is the indication that the person in front of you is trust worthy?

How one can say,” I trust you”?

There are many definitions on the net when you type the question on the Google.

For example:-

� Trust is both an emotional and logical act. Emotionally, it is where you expose your vulnerabilities to people, but believing they will not take advantage of your openness. Logically, it is where you have assessed the probabilities of gain and loss, calculating expected utility based on hard performance data, and concluded that the person in question will behave in a predictable manner.

� Trust means being able to predict what other people will do and what situations will occur. If we can surround ourselves with people we trust, then we can create a safe present and an even better future.

� Trust means enabling other people to take advantage of your vulnerabilities—but expecting that they will not do this.

So, the out come is that in any case or can say going with any kind of definition trust has one word meaning and that is EXPECTATION. One way or other trust is expecting something from other being.

So, is the trust bad?

But I think trust has to forms simple form and the difficult one the expecting process.

In SIMPLE form we just trust our doctors, teachers and some other ones and tell them truth about our self. This is basic thing as we have to get out of our illness so we trust the Doctor; similarly Teachers help us to choose the right path so we trust them and so on.

But in DIFFICULT form or can say expecting form we trust someone expecting that the other being will help us or will return the trust in one or other form in the near future when we need it. But again it has come to the confusing point. How to trust?

Trust is the other word for honesty. Be honest and get trust. Is it this simple? It’s not this simple then taking chances is the living life.

Stages of Loneliness….

When someone cannot swim and is stuck in the water with no land in sight or within close proximity, they are considered to be alone. And regardless of whether swimming has ever been a dream of one's or not, in order to escape those life-threatening seas, one must swim to land. And in order to survive, he or she must now swim through that area of water.

Since no one wants to die, even if they are offered the choice to enter paradise immediately after passing away at this point, it is crucial to note that humans are super fighters when it comes to passing away. History reveals that when it comes to death, people have scaled mountains, subdued deep oceans, and gone beyond all comprehension.

But in the situation of do or die many are there who quit just on edge when they are about to touch the land, or leave the floor when they are about to win over.

Being alone is blissful because it gives one the opportunity to take a quick self-evaluation. And through that, a person can discover the real purpose of their existence.

When one first experiences loneliness, that is the first stage of loneliness. At this point, resist the urge to let loneliness kill the tumor when it is still in its early stages. (Yes, loneliness is like a cancer that resists treatment.)

The second stage is when one starts looking for a companion, but one must be cautious to avoid being duped. The trap that appears golden and brilliant from one angle but is actually merely a blank or a mirage from the other.

The third stage occurs when one starts spending money on useless items that they will never utilize. This trap should be avoided because it only has decreasing order.

The fourth stage occurs when a person overcomes all joys and has a neutral attitude toward all pleasures and goods of this world. This does not imply that one abandons society and begins to live as a hermit or sage. By becoming neutral, one begins to enjoy life as it comes and takes steps to make it worthwhile.

There are more than four stages; these four are merely a condensed version of a longer period that may be described as irksome. Sometimes something is so annoying that you just give up. But before giving up, take a moment to stop by the side of the road, take a close look at both the front and back routes, and ask yourself, "Have I come this far simply to give up?" Why give up now, right when one is ready to win, after one has endured for so long without giving up?

      Enjoy the life as one never knows when one has to leave it all and one will just vanished from this world leaving all the sorrows and joys behind.

      Live the life which has freedom of thoughts.

      Enjoy with whatever you have.

      Enjoy with who so ever you are.

      Enjoy with what so ever means you have.

      Enjoy the every single moment as it will never come again.

      Enjoy every day as this as once this day has passed you will just laugh it off for its sorrows and for its joys.

“Smile and the world smiles with you”. It’s just the simple funda for the life that you will feel from deep inside your own self is worth living.

Be happy.

God Bless.

LONELINESS..........

खालीपन, खालीपन सा कहाँ होता है,

जिसे हम खाली-खाली  कहते,

उसमे भी तोह खाली जगहे ही है.......

I feel alone. It is, but if I believe it, I must be. Because there is a tonne of empty space in the solitude. So, isn't it great that we have a tonne of empty space that we may fill as we please? We can find a creative way to use that loneliness.

Simply said, loneliness is a condition of mind. So, isn't it simple to eliminate loneliness from our lives by controlling our thoughts? Every everyone experiences loneliness at some point in their lifetime. Every single day that begins in the morning ends in the night. Everything that has a beginning eventually comes to an end. Everything in our world is temporary and mortal. The same is true for the feeling of loneliness.

like how we take care of our home kitchen garden. We cultivate the veggies we enjoy eating. Every day, we take care of the garden to ensure that no weeds or stray plants flourish there; if they do, we must pull them out and discard them. Similar to this, we must maintain our minds free of any unwelcome thoughts or ideas. To keep our mental gardens healthy and well-maintained, we must regularly tend to them.

We must practice "SELF LOVE" if we want to overcome our feelings of loneliness. We will discover that others will start to value us when we learn to care more about ourselves. Learn to appreciate and know yourself. That will make it simpler for people to identify qualities in you that they might enjoy.

There is no way out once we are born into this planet; we must live it out. And there are only two ways to live: either blissfully or via constant crying. So why not make a better decision, live a joyful life, and spread happiness everywhere you go?

As they say,” SMILE AND THE WORLD SMILES WITH YOU”.

#selflove

#motivation

WE HUMANS ARE THANKLESS……..

We humans sometimes become really thankless and are filled with attitude that we forget to say thank you when it is most necessary to say.

When ever we see someone with disability, little disfigured and even a lady or gentleman wearing unusual dress and little extra make-up we give those people repeated looks.

Why is it so?

Many times it so because we are Thankless and sometimes we are jealous.

We repeatedly analyze that person from top to bottom, and sometimes make comment too on his/her looks. Many times people make fun of people with little disability like dwarfs or fat people. But on that spot we forget to thank that Lord who has given us perfect looks and perfect figure.

But yes when ever we are sad or feeling down we never forget to make complain to that Lord, or many times say bad words too. But on that spot we forget to think that he has given us life to live and on that he is giving us food to eat and on top of that he is giving us strength to earn that food for us and he has given us roof to save us from sun, rain, cold and heat. But we forget everything and complain him for what he has not given us.

Why we humans have such kind of attitude?

Why we are so thankless, why don’t thank Lord often?

Why we don’t learn to be happy with what ever we have? But yes we never ever forget to complain him even on that second when we feel low?

Why is it so that don’t have positive attitude towards our-self only?

The basic thing to remember to be HAPPY all the time is to THANKFULL to the God to the supreme one who is taking care of us always and all the time.

Be THANKFULL to GOD and BE HAPPY.

Be HAPPY in what ever we have, if so also you are in pain too.

THINK…….

If GOD will give us everything we want then what’s the point of living life.

And if we get whatever we want then what’s the point to live.

The path of HAPPINESS is the one only to be THANKFUL for what we have and in what ever situation we are.

Unconditional Love & Relationships…….

We don't have to say "I LOVE you" over and over again, but we do need to mean it when we do. Since actions speak louder than words, showing your love is more vital than simply declaring it. Every partnership relies on giving and receiving in equal measure. Give love, take love, trust, care, respect, respect, give happiness, take happiness, but most importantly, give yourself, take yourself, and take others. Nothing, not even money, is as valuable as giving and receiving. One can spend a lot of money on material possessions with the hope that they will make them happy. Yes they give happiness but that happiness is just an impression in our mind that we are happy.

Every connection is successful when US and WE are present. Like love, love cannot be measured in terms of quantity. How many, also? Hello! It's love, not a potato or an onion, which can be purchased in large quantities. One can experience love and remain in it for the rest of their lives. And that is the only explanation for why there are NUNS and SAINTS among us. They are always in love, and it is an unconditional love, because they are devoted lovers.

Unconditional love is what makes it true love. Giving a loved one unconditional love means doing so "NO MATTER WHAT." Love that is unconditional is built on strong emotions. It is only an infatuation if it is not unconditional. And because infatuation is based on passion, which is akin to fire and dies when the fire goes out, it has a short lifespan.

The most crucial aspect of love is that it should always be unconditional. And regardless of who. If a relationship is not mutually beneficial, it is merely a relationship and not true love. Love is giving our entire selves, and receiving Love is merely a relationship. Relationships and love are heavenly and necessary for life. Both have a unique place of their own. Since we are social beings, relationships are a reality for us. The only way to have a healthy connection is to "GIVE AND TAKE."

#selflove

RUNNING FOR TO CATCH THE DEATH….

RUNNING FOR TO CATCH THE DEATH….

Heavy traffic on the road, jam packed metro trains; jam packed buses and crowded markets, any where we go we can see people just running and running. You can try once sit any where in the open ground and where ever you look you can see people running and running.

What is it that they are running after, Money! Name! Or is it Fame!

It only one thing that we are running after and it is! DEATH!

Yes believe it or not it is the death after which we are running. Knowingly or unknowingly we are running after death. We want to be free from all are miseries and we want that we should be free from the chakra of being born and die again and again. So, that’s the reason we are running after death, and we want that the death should catch hold of us and set us free from all the miseries.

Since we are born to achieve our goal we try our best to lure the death with all types of elaborated means, and every day we put a little more effort to achieve our goal.

 We buy new and fashion able clothes – to look good and shinning always.

 We eat good and notorious food – to look Healthy.

 We make friends – to keep our self up-to-date, so that we don’t lack behind in the race of catching death.

 We earn money – to lure the death with precious things.

 We try our best to remain happy – to get the attraction of the death.

 We do charity work – to enlist our name in the good books of death.

So, day by day we keep on inventing new ways to get the attention of the death, i.e., like with the invention of light, so the death can see us in the dark too and like the invention of airplanes so that we can achieve our goal faster and many more other ones to make it easier for us to reach our goal quickly.  So every day we try to add one more brick to construct a staircase which helps us to reach our goal of achieving NIRVANA as soon as possible. So that we are free from the chakra of being born and die again and again.

      “Nirvana or lasting enlightenment or true spiritual growth can be achieved only through persistent exercise of real love.”

(P.S- If I am wrong do correct me)