Little Human about me………

                                      

When I asked God,

He said don’t you worry.

When I asked my eyes,

They said it’s good to see.

When I asked my mind,

He said he will think over it.

When I asked my senses,

They said felling is good.

When I asked my heart,

He said go with the flow.

When I asked myself,

I feel good about it.

Then why is it so,

That I feel scared about,

When God is with me,

Then too I feel little terrible about it,

I think its all Human thing about me,

That compels me to be little fickle about everything.

Why we don’t find love these days……..

Why we don’t find love these days……..

Why we don’t find love these days……..

God loves each of us as if there were only one of us.

Why is that we are always look out for true love?

Can’t we just look for only, simple Love?

If look generally we can find love all around but what we look for is true love like:-

Radha & Krishna

Heer & Ranjha

Laila & Majnu

Sassi & Punnu and many more……..

But here one thing has to be understood that these were the stories only. Why stories only? Has anyone seen them? Is there any one story only out these all stories that can be proved to be true? If you do a survey you will come around all the different kind of version of these love stories.

Firstly, we should understand that stories are told just to make us understand the meaning of MORAL which is only of few words or can say just to make us understand the meaning of the phrase for which the stories are told.

So, as we human are short memory types we constantly have to keep our self reminding about that what is wrong and what is right, what is truth and what is mirage. So, our forefathers invented the system of the story telling and every country, state, town, village, country sides, region, religion, tradition and even a simple house hold peoples have there own version of the stories of all kind so that we can briefly understand the meaning of the moral of the story.

So, friends the moral of my story about LOVE is that stop looking for Love and Be ready to feel it when it comes around, Be ready not to miss the moment in which you will feel yes this what I was looking for and go ahead and take your chance. Wake up your intuition power and your sixth sense by MEDITATION and feel love all the time and in what is around you.

The true meaning of Love in the real world is GIVE AND TAKE.

It’s just simple give love and get love.

Lord has made all the things and humans of different kind, of different color and with different beauty. Each and every thing and person has its own beauty, we just have to find that in him. As it is well said beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So, smile always and find for that beauty in the person in front of you which he has. The person who is ignorant, he/she is ignorant but that does not mean he/she is bad. No one is bad in this world all things and humans are made by Lord then how can they be bad, yes they can be called ignorant but not bad. Look for the inner beauty of the person because that is only truth outer beauty is just a MIRAGE; it will melt as the time passes by.

Youthful beauty fades with time, but, with cultivation, inner beauty grows richer.

And also it is well said:-

प्यार को प्यार ही रहने दो कोई नाम ना दो........

Let the love be love only don’t give it a name……

Regards.

I Trust you........

What is the trust?

How one can trust someone?

What is the indication that the person in front of you is trust worthy?

How one can say,” I trust you”?

There are many definitions on the net when you type the question on the Google.

For example:-

� Trust is both an emotional and logical act. Emotionally, it is where you expose your vulnerabilities to people, but believing they will not take advantage of your openness. Logically, it is where you have assessed the probabilities of gain and loss, calculating expected utility based on hard performance data, and concluded that the person in question will behave in a predictable manner.

� Trust means being able to predict what other people will do and what situations will occur. If we can surround ourselves with people we trust, then we can create a safe present and an even better future.

� Trust means enabling other people to take advantage of your vulnerabilities—but expecting that they will not do this.

So, the out come is that in any case or can say going with any kind of definition trust has one word meaning and that is EXPECTATION. One way or other trust is expecting something from other being.

So, is the trust bad?

But I think trust has to forms simple form and the difficult one the expecting process.

In SIMPLE form we just trust our doctors, teachers and some other ones and tell them truth about our self. This is basic thing as we have to get out of our illness so we trust the Doctor; similarly Teachers help us to choose the right path so we trust them and so on.

But in DIFFICULT form or can say expecting form we trust someone expecting that the other being will help us or will return the trust in one or other form in the near future when we need it. But again it has come to the confusing point. How to trust?

Trust is the other word for honesty. Be honest and get trust. Is it this simple? It’s not this simple then taking chances is the living life.

Stages of Loneliness….

When someone cannot swim and is stuck in the water with no land in sight or within close proximity, they are considered to be alone. And regardless of whether swimming has ever been a dream of one's or not, in order to escape those life-threatening seas, one must swim to land. And in order to survive, he or she must now swim through that area of water.

Since no one wants to die, even if they are offered the choice to enter paradise immediately after passing away at this point, it is crucial to note that humans are super fighters when it comes to passing away. History reveals that when it comes to death, people have scaled mountains, subdued deep oceans, and gone beyond all comprehension.

But in the situation of do or die many are there who quit just on edge when they are about to touch the land, or leave the floor when they are about to win over.

Being alone is blissful because it gives one the opportunity to take a quick self-evaluation. And through that, a person can discover the real purpose of their existence.

When one first experiences loneliness, that is the first stage of loneliness. At this point, resist the urge to let loneliness kill the tumor when it is still in its early stages. (Yes, loneliness is like a cancer that resists treatment.)

The second stage is when one starts looking for a companion, but one must be cautious to avoid being duped. The trap that appears golden and brilliant from one angle but is actually merely a blank or a mirage from the other.

The third stage occurs when one starts spending money on useless items that they will never utilize. This trap should be avoided because it only has decreasing order.

The fourth stage occurs when a person overcomes all joys and has a neutral attitude toward all pleasures and goods of this world. This does not imply that one abandons society and begins to live as a hermit or sage. By becoming neutral, one begins to enjoy life as it comes and takes steps to make it worthwhile.

There are more than four stages; these four are merely a condensed version of a longer period that may be described as irksome. Sometimes something is so annoying that you just give up. But before giving up, take a moment to stop by the side of the road, take a close look at both the front and back routes, and ask yourself, "Have I come this far simply to give up?" Why give up now, right when one is ready to win, after one has endured for so long without giving up?

      Enjoy the life as one never knows when one has to leave it all and one will just vanished from this world leaving all the sorrows and joys behind.

      Live the life which has freedom of thoughts.

      Enjoy with whatever you have.

      Enjoy with who so ever you are.

      Enjoy with what so ever means you have.

      Enjoy the every single moment as it will never come again.

      Enjoy every day as this as once this day has passed you will just laugh it off for its sorrows and for its joys.

“Smile and the world smiles with you”. It’s just the simple funda for the life that you will feel from deep inside your own self is worth living.

Be happy.

God Bless.

LONELINESS..........

खालीपन, खालीपन सा कहाँ होता है,

जिसे हम खाली-खाली  कहते,

उसमे भी तोह खाली जगहे ही है.......

I feel alone. It is, but if I believe it, I must be. Because there is a tonne of empty space in the solitude. So, isn't it great that we have a tonne of empty space that we may fill as we please? We can find a creative way to use that loneliness.

Simply said, loneliness is a condition of mind. So, isn't it simple to eliminate loneliness from our lives by controlling our thoughts? Every everyone experiences loneliness at some point in their lifetime. Every single day that begins in the morning ends in the night. Everything that has a beginning eventually comes to an end. Everything in our world is temporary and mortal. The same is true for the feeling of loneliness.

like how we take care of our home kitchen garden. We cultivate the veggies we enjoy eating. Every day, we take care of the garden to ensure that no weeds or stray plants flourish there; if they do, we must pull them out and discard them. Similar to this, we must maintain our minds free of any unwelcome thoughts or ideas. To keep our mental gardens healthy and well-maintained, we must regularly tend to them.

We must practice "SELF LOVE" if we want to overcome our feelings of loneliness. We will discover that others will start to value us when we learn to care more about ourselves. Learn to appreciate and know yourself. That will make it simpler for people to identify qualities in you that they might enjoy.

There is no way out once we are born into this planet; we must live it out. And there are only two ways to live: either blissfully or via constant crying. So why not make a better decision, live a joyful life, and spread happiness everywhere you go?

As they say,” SMILE AND THE WORLD SMILES WITH YOU”.

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