Stages of Loneliness….

When someone cannot swim and is stuck in the water with no land in sight or within close proximity, they are considered to be alone. And regardless of whether swimming has ever been a dream of one's or not, in order to escape those life-threatening seas, one must swim to land. And in order to survive, he or she must now swim through that area of water.

Since no one wants to die, even if they are offered the choice to enter paradise immediately after passing away at this point, it is crucial to note that humans are super fighters when it comes to passing away. History reveals that when it comes to death, people have scaled mountains, subdued deep oceans, and gone beyond all comprehension.

But in the situation of do or die many are there who quit just on edge when they are about to touch the land, or leave the floor when they are about to win over.

Being alone is blissful because it gives one the opportunity to take a quick self-evaluation. And through that, a person can discover the real purpose of their existence.

When one first experiences loneliness, that is the first stage of loneliness. At this point, resist the urge to let loneliness kill the tumor when it is still in its early stages. (Yes, loneliness is like a cancer that resists treatment.)

The second stage is when one starts looking for a companion, but one must be cautious to avoid being duped. The trap that appears golden and brilliant from one angle but is actually merely a blank or a mirage from the other.

The third stage occurs when one starts spending money on useless items that they will never utilize. This trap should be avoided because it only has decreasing order.

The fourth stage occurs when a person overcomes all joys and has a neutral attitude toward all pleasures and goods of this world. This does not imply that one abandons society and begins to live as a hermit or sage. By becoming neutral, one begins to enjoy life as it comes and takes steps to make it worthwhile.

There are more than four stages; these four are merely a condensed version of a longer period that may be described as irksome. Sometimes something is so annoying that you just give up. But before giving up, take a moment to stop by the side of the road, take a close look at both the front and back routes, and ask yourself, "Have I come this far simply to give up?" Why give up now, right when one is ready to win, after one has endured for so long without giving up?

      Enjoy the life as one never knows when one has to leave it all and one will just vanished from this world leaving all the sorrows and joys behind.

      Live the life which has freedom of thoughts.

      Enjoy with whatever you have.

      Enjoy with who so ever you are.

      Enjoy with what so ever means you have.

      Enjoy the every single moment as it will never come again.

      Enjoy every day as this as once this day has passed you will just laugh it off for its sorrows and for its joys.

“Smile and the world smiles with you”. It’s just the simple funda for the life that you will feel from deep inside your own self is worth living.

Be happy.

God Bless.